Back call dating day two waiting
Some of my friends don't want to hurt their dates' feelings, so they pay her compliments, like, "You're a really great girl," or " I had a terrific time with you" -- and then they tell her they don't want to go out again. Some guys prefer to pay compliments to their date, but never hint that they're not interested -- and then they never call her.
I've been guilty of that myself, because it's hard to know how to tell someone you aren't interested without offending her! Can you give guys like me some advice about what's the right way to approach these situations?
But as Evan rightly says he may not be that into you. It’s a case of playing the percentages (not romantic I know but then not everyone locks eyes on their future partnet passing each other on an escalator in the Paris Metro and then bump into each other in a coffee shop hours later).
You may well break as many hearts as they break yours.
This way you slowly but surely integrate yourself into the girl's life, and by ENDING THE CALLS YOURSELF instead of waiting for conversation to dry out, you eliminate any signs of desperation. You don't have to ask her on a date on your first call, you know!
If you wait 3 days, you may have lost emotional momentum and it may be harder for her to recall the attraction she felt, depending on how well you did when you first met! Just tell her something cool happened, chat briefly, then say you've gotta go and will talk later. The three day rule is supposed to work on everyone. Then on your next call in the next few days, invite her along somewhere if you want.
So don’t beat yourself up about it as he may be just as into you – 3 days after all is not a long time and life gets very hectic.
Following this rule, you are to wait 3 days before calling in order to create suspense and appear non-needy.